I am determined to try to share something with you at least twice a week. Maybe it is about my thoughts on this wild and crazy adventure called "parenting", or a funny story, because we all have them! I'm not even really sure anyone reads this, but even if one person does and feels some encouragement, I will be blessed.
So, here it goes....
I have been on my parenting adventure for almost 16 years. It is so hard to imagine that when Dave and I first learned that, Yes, we would be parents back in 1994, our lives would look like they do today. I really don't believe any of us can truly imagine what parenting will be like and what a crazy ride we are about to embark on. I know many of us "dream" about being parents, about not making the same "mistakes" our parents made and all that...but could any of us really know what we were getting ourselves into??? I think NOT! I can honestly say that I have LOVED being a parent. Now, I am not saying I have LOVED every minute of it, I am just saying I love being a parent! I admit, I do not miss potty training or the tantrums or the power struggles of the will. I can still remember vividly, that helpless feeling when one of the kids got hurt, I don't think that will ever go away, no matter how old they get. Praise God, we have only had 2 emergency room visits...so far! But there has been such great joy and even a little pride as I watch each of my children grow into becoming young women and men of character. I realize that I have many years ahead of me, more heartache and more joy...but I can honestly say so far, this has been an amazing journey. So let me encourage you if you are just beginning...parenting has many wonderful, amazing, joy-filled moments, don´t let those days when everything seems to go wrong and you are tired of being needed physically, get you down. There will, for sure, come a day when they need you less...less clinging to your leg or on your lap and they will need you more, emotionally and for coaching. It´s a wonderful progression, enjoy the ride!
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